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pl3yd0h
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Seduction or relationship(s)

Hello gentlemen. I'd like to ask you a question.

What portion of enjoyment in your life has come from seducing versus time spent in committed relationships? The line can be blurry sometimes but if you had to compare the thrill of the chase and tasting the new prize against whatever pleasure you got/get from being in relationships, which comes out on top?

I'll answer first. I like being in relationships but seduction is so thrilling. Even a picture of a woman who meets my fancy sets my heart throbbing. I often regret when I am in a relationship and wish for more opportunities for new partners. Maybe I am seeing "the grass is greener"?

Thus my ratio is about 6 / 4 in favor of seduction. Seduction can be so painful but the emotional ups and downs leave an impression that's hard to forget. That's the impression that I recall when I need to get excited to go out and try again!

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Both seduction and relationships are a state. The difference is that seduction is constant, forever, while relationships are generally fleeting.

You talk like they are mutually exclusive; they shouldn't be.

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Yes, you still have to seduce, even in a long term relationship.
Women will play hard to get most of the time...
Especially when they have a headache!

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Edogaijin wrote:

Especially when they have a headache!

Some Philippine women have discovered that good sex <b>cures</b> headaches.

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Scientists have too:

http://blogs.menshealth.com/health-headlines/cure-for-headaches/2011/01/04

In any agenda, political or otherwise, there is a cost to be borne. Always ask what it is, and who will be paying. If you don’t, then the agenda-makers will pick up the perfume of your silence like swamp panthers on the scent of blood, and the next thing you know, the person expected to bear the cost will be you. And you may not have what it takes to pay.